Posts from the ‘love’ Category

The Language of Love

Love has a language of its own, yet really all you have to know is it is the way.  I love the movie The Passion of Christ, not because it was easy to watch by any means.  I loved it because it spoke the truth of what God is, God is Love, the truth and the way. 

I recently went to see the movie Red Tails, in that movie the Love/Romance was a pilot seeing what he though was a beautiful Italian women on a roof top hanging clothes on a line.  They waved at each other with a smile of course and you would think that was it.  The pilot appears to be a bit of a womanizer based on what they want us to believe about the pilot.  After landing the plane he jumps in a jeep to go find this women from the roof top.  Once he find her he finds out that she does not speak English and he does not speak Italian.  He tails his friends that she is the one and only one that he wants to be with.  Her mother is or seems excited to have her daughter involved with a military man.

It was hard to tell how the women felt at first but after watching them together you could tell she cared for him as well.  The point here is they could not speak to each other in a common understanding, yet they were clearly speaking to each other on the Love Connection or Love Language.  Even when you do speak the same native language you could be speaking in different languages.  Women speak Women while men speak man, neither are right or wrong just harder to understand for the opposite sex.  Does this mean they are unable to connect or speak to one another? I don’t think so but what it does mean is you have let that universal language of love speak louder.

I don’t know why it is that men speak such a totally different language than women, I guess it is not totally different but yet different enough.



>What Would You Do?

>What would you do when someone tell you they are dying of Cancer?

Well that happened to me and to be honest with you I did not know what to say. It hurts because of the obvious fact but when a person is not willing to fight what do you do? You fight for them because the battle is in the mind.

It reminds me of when my Uncle lost his leg in a work related accident. I remember wanting to fight someone at his job. I remember driving out to his job looking for a fight. When I got there it seemed as if nothing was going on and that was weired because it is a production company.

When I finally got to see him in the hospital he had already lost his leg. I just remember seeing how strong he was at least to me he was. I thought that if he is not mad, and he seemed calm I knew what I needed to do.

See that moment was a transfer of energy and his energy was higher then mine until we exchanged then we were on the same level.

My point in this is that the person suffering sets the energy of the situation. I am very sad about this Cancer thing, mostly because I have just got to know him and see to much of myself in him and that hurts. It hurts because when you know what you know and you don’t use it the way you want to. Pain is all I can say, it is why I work so hard on doing what I love. That love is speaking to people about my thoughts, but be open or you will miss it.

So to answer the question of What would you do, simple be you the person will need that the most. If they are not the strong one to help raise the energy then it is your lucky day. It is not easy by any means but what else are you going to do.

For this person he claims to need exactly what I give him, and that being my time, patience and straight to the point without hold punches. I always say my tounge is always sharp and I lack the know how to dull it when needed. God is not done with me yet either.

This is for you Cuz in your life’s journey and you like us all will make it to the other side. I just hope you enjoyed the moment.

And that is OBMO

>What Would You Do?

>What would you do when some one you would die says you mean less the someone else? Or not in my case but they say they don’t love you at all?

I don’t believe this myself in my case but what if? I don’t love expecting to be loved back. I love because it is in me to give. This is were the gift is in the giving comes in to play. If a person does not receive the gift, then who is the receiver of the gift? This is something we as a people need to work on in my opinion.

To love some one without expectations is a freeing type of love. Now don’t get it twisted because we all have a need to be loved. It is human nature to desire it. But expecting to be loved in a certain way will cause great pain to your growth.

This kind of love can only be expected as a child seeking love from a parent.

I heard a wise women say “Do it anyways”

So I ask that we all “Do it anyways”

Thanks for helping me learn this lesson even better. I choose you Nana now and forever!